In a hypersexualized society, where liberals push sex on to children, it is impossible to divorce one’s sense of self from their sexuality.

Men are men and women are women. They are different. From puberty on, all men think about is sex. From the Sixties on, all women have been told is, “Screw around as much as men to prove you are equal and just as in control of your life. In fact, to hell with fetuses, it’s YOUR body and your choice!”

Men are physically-stronger than women. In some cases many times so. Is control over men by using the vagina a way to compensate or rebel against this fact of nature? It seems to be, by the way women like Ms. Valenti take sides on issues.

I don’t feel the need to start a site called, “Masculisting” because I am secure in who I am as a man and human being.

Feminists who argue against abstinence only sex ed programs should be happy there are even any sex ed programs for children at all.

As far as I’m concerned, those are private, personal discussions to be held between pre-teens/teens and their parents.

Are you seriously calling a girl you don’t know a “sperm dumpster”? How incredibly rude and thoughtless. You obviously think you’re awesome because you only “bang” hot girls — clearly sex is an important moral, emotional commitment for you — yet this girl is worthless because she’s had sex with someone she cares about? 17 IS an adult. I’m sure you had legitimate feelings and desires when you were 17! A lot of people under 17 might not feel comfortable having sex; a lot of people OVER 17 might not feel comfortable having sex. Nothing magical happens at the arbitrary age of 18. It’s a personal choice to have sex, and Jessica Valenti’s whole point is not “Go out and have lots of unprotected sex!”, it’s “If you feel comfortable having sex with someone, you shouldn’t be judged for it.”

Shaniquequa, I support you 110%. The sexism and racism in these comments is disheartening.

And who are you to say my boyfriend and I won’t last because I can’t appreciate him? I agree to an extent. We probably won’t last because most high school relationships don’t but I have hope in us because I love him so much. He’s the only person I truly care about. I would take a bullet for him (even though he says he wouldn’t let me). I cry at the thought of not being without him (and I’m usually independent and feel I don’t need a man). And yes I appreciate every single thing he does for me. And who are you to say at my age, you can’t appreciate someone. I know women in their 30′s that can’t appreciate a man so age to an extent is just a number. On top of that majority of the women my age haven’t been through what I’ve been through. I’ve been through one person treating me badly to the next which probably can explain why I don’t trust people when I first see them and stick to it. But it does teach me to be appreciative towards something if it’s a good thing for me which is my boyfriend who has literally saved my life one too many times for me not to realize he’s perfect.

The education system spends an awful lot of time warning kids about the dangers of smoking. You might even say that their policy is ‘abstinence only’ towards tobacco. And yet, each year, thousands of kids start smoking anyway. It seems to me that ‘abstinence only’ is a complete failure. Better education must be the answer!